Hello Madam felicia, please i beg to remain anonymous. I have this girlfriend I plan to marry. We have been together for like 5yrs and her attitude suddenly change ever since she got admission into university. She told me she is not sure if she wants to leave me. What annoys me most is that she makes a big deal from every little thing. I am 29yrs old please I need your advice.
Five years isn’t five days so I totally understand how you are feeling. But the truth is she seems tired and bored in the relationship. So you have to bring romance back between the two of you. Do the romantic things like gifts, trips, dinner dates, lovely sms, phone calls etc. Please do not over do it because it becomes irritating. If all these do not work out, then you both have to sit down and talk about the issue. When I get this same feeling like your girlfriend, I decide to take a walk. If she is not loving you again dear, let her go and continue with your life… you are 29 not 99!