Hello Madam Felicia, my name is Kessy and I am 23years old. I have been in relationship with my girlfriend for 3months now, and we love each other so much. 3 weeks ago, she came to my place to wash my dirty clothes for me, and after she finished washing my clothes we went inside to watch a movie. We start to play by beating each other and suddenly we got to the stage we couldn’t control our feelings anymore. So we had sex on that day.
The next day, she called me on the phone and told me that she was pregnant for me. But that was my first time having sex with her. When she called me on the phone, she also said that she want to abort the child because she is still schooling.
What is more surprising to me is that, before we had sex I asked her and she told me that she was in her safe period. So I decided to take her to the lab and do a pregnancy test, but she refused and she told me that she will go for the test when she gets back to school in the same week. Just this morning, she called me and told me that she had done the test and it indicated that she is pregnant.
Ma should I believe her? Because I just had sex with her once and she told me the next day that she was pregnant. How could she be pregnant when she was safe? Mama, please advise me because I am also in school and I don’t know what will happen if my parents hear about this?
Please don’t panic. For you not to make mistakes again in your relationship concerning sex, i will advise that you use condom for safe sex and for the avoidance of unwanted pregnancy.
When last did you contacted her to know her status concerning her abortion decision?, please kindly reach me back on that question. I will need your feedback on that.