Hello Madam Felicia, I am in a relationship with a guy whom I love with my heart for the first time but am scared of heartbreak. He told me about how he and his ex met yesterday and the ex was trying to bring back old memory. One thing lead to another thing, they kissed each other and was going to the next level but he said he pushed her away but i find it difficult to believe despite he told me that was what happened. Now the girl asked him to marry her because she wants to go abroad to complete her nursing career, and if they should get married he would go and meet her there but he said He didn’t agree to her plans cause we are together and he doesn’t feel the way his ex feel about him. I am scared, don’t know what to do because his ex can go extra miles just to get him….that’s what he said. What should I do? Should I continue the relationship or break up with him cause his ex and him had so many good times together.
You will need to calm down and find some peace within you so as to have the clear understanding of the choices that you are to make.
Atimes some certain things don’t look like what it looks like on the surface until you find out the real truth, you will only base your emotions on assumptions not truth or facts or proof.
My dear, what am going to tell you is to be patient and while you are patient, you watch with vigilance and listen with your sense of wisdom in your relationship.
You will have to speak deeply more with your lover on this issue and you won’t just believe whatever he says but you will watch his actions without him knowing you are actually watching him.
Let me finally ask you, are you sure he loves you? If YES, then I will say that you hold him on whatever he tells you until you discover otherwise.