Hello Madam Felicia, my name is Doris and I am 25 years old. I have been married for 2 years now. My husband left me and went back abroad just a month after our marriage, and he is married to a white lady there too because of his papers. Though me and my former boyfriend are separated, we still love each other and the chemistry is there anytime we are alone together. We separated because his parents wanted him to marry another lady who is not fit for him. I am now 3 months pregnant for my boyfriend and he does not want me to abort it. My boyfriend says I should divorce my husband for him for us to marry because the baby is his. But my husband is 45 years old and he has BP. If I tell him, he may die because he has spent so much on me. Please, i am confused, I still love my boyfriend and he loves me too more than how my husband loves me. Please advise me.
The priority of a married woman is her matrimonial home and how to save it from any storm that may come. let me ask you , Do you have an understanding with your husband before he married a white woman abroad? Did he inform you before going ahead to tie the knots? Your boy friend is your boyfriend not your husband and that’s what he will continue to be unless you decide otherwise.
keeping away this powerful secret from your husband will do more harm than good , if not now in the future and it may even affect your kid mentally and emotionally in the future.
You can’t love two people at the same time. you are left with the option of saving your marriage or not sticking to your marriage.
Now Dear, my advise for you is to find a way of telling your husband the before he finds out.
if he finds out himself later it will be more disastrous. we all make mistakes and we will always get the second chance if we try to come out in true conscience and loyalty.