Hello Madam Felicia, am Mariam, 21 years old , I started dating a guy a year ago, I loved him and we introduced ourselves to our family at the early stage of the relationship, as Muslims,, we never try sex cause it’s forbidden in Islam, he later left to Lebanon to further her education, he came back 6 months later and we enjoyed to the fullest, he left to abroad again and started treating me bad, later on, he told me that he want us to stop cause he’s not coming home for the next 6 years and if I get a serious man, I should give in to him, I fainted and got admitted at the hospital, I then gave in to a man who was really showing interest in me when I was with d first guy, I gave in cause I wanted to recover from my shock, now the new guy is making me happy and trying to meet my family just this coming Friday, But my old man is now sending apology all over my environment, and I still love him although he has hurt me before, Please help me out because I think am doomed now.
My Dear love conquers all. You are not doomed, you are loved by two men and it’s not bad. You can only be doomed if you make the wrong choice from the two of the men in your life. I know you may be confused but you can’t escape from the choices and the feelings. You first must know what your dream man should be and who best fits into your dream love.
My advise for you is that you follow the deepest part of you that speaks for your mind .
follow your mind and you will not be doomed.