I’ve some men I would consider good men, I’ve also come across some I
would consider bad news. I’m not concerned about the bad news cos
they’re some of the frogs a lady might encounter in her relationship
My concern is with the ones I really have a connection with but the
relationship doesn’t last. One thing or the other happens and the
relationship packs up. I wonder why I would have to go through this
experience repeatedly. I’ve both lowered and resurrected my standards
just to accommodate the guy. I’ve tried to be more tolerant and less
critical. I’ve ensured that the man in my life does not feel burdened
by my challenges. But it doesn’t seem to be working. I’ve tried
silence and I’ve also tried speaking out when I’m not happy, but they
I really want someone who can love me for me.
What do I do?
Thank you for getting back to me.
My dear, we all have every right to the requirements we want in the
opposite sex and whether we have high standards or lower our standards,
the truth is the ONE for you would stay, regardless of the
standards….just don’t make it unrealistic… Lol
Be real, be true to yourself, be of good behaviour, develop yourself,
and put it all in God’s hands.
Also, are you a working class lady or a student? Do you appear as
‘single and desperately searching to get married’ to the guys? Are you
a dictator? All these and more could have its effects on any
I also need you to know that, sometimes we connect with some people and
they do not connect with us, while some people connect with us more than
we even connect with those we really connect to, but we refuse to see
this or want to have anything to do with them…… In my opinion, i
would advice you give room to those who would treat you better than they
All the best.