*** Season Greetings ***
After 6 failed good relationships leading to marriage, I still find
it hard to love again, even now that i am in a distant relationship and i’m a
guy who love and once i’m in love, i love with all I have ….
But after telling my partners my true state financially and generally, they all
seem to lost interest. and i’m getting worried. Thanks.
thank you for writing me.
From your question, most of the women you meet and have intentions of getting married to leave you eventually, due to your financial disposition.
The truth is, we all are capable of loving at some point(s) in our lives and regardless of a man’s financial situation, anybody that wants to stay for reasons best known to them would stay.
I need you to know that at the point where your prospective partner do not know about your totality, considering your situation constantly re-occurring, it might still end up yielding same result.
I think what you should consider doing is, while developing yourself in every aspect of your life, who ever you come across and would not mind settling down with should be aware of your totality, in other not to think you are living a lie or not being completely honest with them, try not put the cart before the horse so that same result as the previous will not happen again.
The honest truth is no matter how patient or loving a woman is, it is very difficult to live happily ever after, if the most basic needs are lacking. Success does not come in a day, and the right woman will understand that. But, you have to show commitment and effort that you are trying your best to change things.
I hope and pray that you will find the best woman for yourself this year, and hopefully get married.
Keep working, hoping and believing.
Feel free write me back if you need further help.
Thanks for your mother concerns to my question. The lady I was dating
that I asked you for way forward between us has finally broken up with
me yesterday 6/01/2016.
Claiming she is no more interested and I never kept any secret from
her about my totally, specially financial aspects, now making a lists
of 8 failed relationship, love na wa Oooo.
I’m really sorry to read about the break up.
But sincerely, I would advice that you don’t sulk or keep counting the ones that went unproductive, instead, focus on working real hard on yourself to the extent that any woman would not give a second thought being with you. Also, imagine how you would have felt in the long run if she had stayed with you in deception, knowing fully well how she feels about you but leading you on and making you think you have something going only for her to break it at the end of the day.
The fact that this one did not work does not mean another one will not work.
Self development and financial growth can not be over looked in this issue, as such, I would advice you to keep working on improving positively yourself.
Good luck and God’s blessing!