I just got married April 2015 and it feels so weird. I think my husband doesn’t find me attractive anymore. We are yet to have a baby and my husband won’t make love to me and rejects me when I make the move.It is killing me.
First, i am very sorry for my late response. I am also sorry about your situation. I can understand how frustrating this can be especially considering that your marriage is less than a year old.
There are several thoughts that comes to mind as regards his sudden change in behavior. There has be a reason for this, i think you should try and find out what it could be.
Your marriage can only blossom and be successful if your husband understands you, and you understand too, this can only be achieved via effective communication. Some of the reasons that i think might reduce a man’s desire for sex include’s the following.
- Stress from work, and pressure from an uncompleted or new project in the office.
- Boring romance and uninteresting sex in the past.
- General Fatigue
You need to talk with your husband. Utilize one of his happy moment and chip it in. Let him know how much you have missed him, and how he makes you feel on bed.
most men react/respond to what they see. Is there anything you are wearing or doing that does not appeal to him?
There are several things that could be involved in this kind of reaction.
I really think you should look for the right moment to have a heart to heart talk with him about this so as to know where or what to work on. Having this kind of small communication after sex will not be bad idea as well.
I hope you find this useful, let know how it goes.
All the best.