Good evening Madam Felicia. Complement of the season. Thanks a lot for the good work that you are doing, may God almighty continue to bless and strengthen you more and more. (Amen) A friend of mine needs your help he has a lot of female friends who they often chat via social network and sometimes via phone calls, this has affected his relationship on several occasions and his girl friend are not always comfortable with it, they’ve advise him to stop chatting with his female friends but my friend would not stop. Now his present girlfriend is about to quit base on d same issue please your urgent advise is needed. “Why should i chase my female friends away because of my girlfriend that i just met compare 2 those that we’ve been together for a very long time” that was his response. Also remember d devil you’ve known for so long is better than angel you’re about to know…
Thank you for reaching out on behalf of your friend.
As regards your friend’s girlfriends leaving him on several occasions because of the several female friends he keeps in touch with, what he needs to understand is, there are times in one’s life when no one but the person involved in a situation needs to take control of the situation for a positive solution and result.
Don’t get me wrong, I’m not saying your friend should not have friends, but to what end do you keep losing relationship because of friendship? One should not suffer or hurt for the other.
Friendship and relationship play different roles in one’s life, as such, there should be respect accorded accordingly to both parties. Does he feel comfortable with his girlfriend chatting away with several guys?
Honestly, relationship would be easier if you try to put yourself in other people’s situation before acting, because in so doing, you would not do what you would not take….don’t you think so?