I am a 24 years old graduate doing my national youth service. I have a very big problem which I’d like your fans out there to help me. I’ve been in so many relationships which i end up for no tangible reasons. I can count more than 25 relationships with different girls and slept with all of them, which i am still counting. At the moment am in a relationship with 4 girls. They all really love me, but I still keep on proposing to any girl my eyes set on. How can I put an end to all of these and focus on a single relationship? I don’t want to flirt anymore. Please help me.
I am Dating 4 girls, And I Am Still Proposing To More. How Can I Stop?
The first step to resolving a problem is acknowledging that there is a problem.
Also, there is a huge difference between being in a relationship, flirting and proposing.
You can not afford to be proposing to any and every girl you set your eyes on because asides the fact that you are toiling with other people’s emotions by not being truthful and faithful, you might as well be doing more harm than good to yourself, maybe not now, but in the future when you eventually meet someone you sincerely want to spend the rest of your life with and then some of the ingredients in relationship which includes: trust, honesty, devotion, fidelity amongst others seems missing.
You might think it is youthful exuberant and as such be leading the opposite sex to the wrong path whether intentionally or unintentionally but then, it does not speak well of your person.
It is very easy to destroy a wonderful relationship, but to build takes a whole lot more than even ‘commitment’ itself.
You need to really work on yourself by praying, reading books on being faithful, trustworthy, focused, and acting on becoming a better man, future husband and dad as well.
I wish you luck.