Lavish a little attention on these under-appreciated spots and you’ll both be glad
Just as the sight of a sexy pedicure can pique your interest, some women love attention spent on their toes. “This is the kind of situation that may feel really ticklish in the beginning, but may feel really good as you are cycling through the process of arousal,” . Every stage of arousal changes body receptivity to sensation, so what was once ticklish can become exciting later on.
There are approximately 100,000 hair strands on a scalp, and attached to each one of these are tiny muscles called arrector pili muscles—muscles tied to your sympathetic nervous system that trigger your involuntary reactions, like fight-or-flight. If you’ve ever felt like your hair was standing on end when you were really cold, then you’ve felt those muscles.
Wrapping a lock of her hair around your finger and pulling gently will stimulate the sensitive nerve endings in her scalp, sending the tingling pleasure down her back. You will want to start off gentler, closer to a scalp massage than intense hair-grabbing passion. As things heat up and her arousal causes her body to release endorphins, her pain threshold will increase and you can become a little rougher.
Focus your sensual touch on locations with the smoothest skin, like the inner thigh, stomach, or upper inner arm. Regions with thinner skin have more sensitive nerve endings. But you will want to be careful with how you touch these regions. If you go too rough, like grabbing too hard or abrading the skin with too forceful strokes, you can take her out of the arousal process. Gentle touches are enough to get her engines revving. For an even more heightened experience, run your p*nis—not just your hands—across her bare skin. The feel of your erection across her lower, thighs, and stomach will give her goose and have her begging for more
We know you can’t physically touch her noodle, but no matter how good you are with your hands, she’s hoping you will stimulate her brain with your words. “Physical stimulation doesn’t exist in a vacuum. You can enhance her sensations wherever you’re touching her if you communicate a scenario.