So you and your girlfriends broke up and you still want her back. Chances are that she is still interested in you and is waiting for you to want her back too or she might have moved on already. Yeah, I know it’s hard to distinguish the truth from the lies.
You see, one of the most attractive qualities of a woman is that she gives her all in a relationship with the man she deeply loves. Secondly, true love dos not just go immediately. I have heard of cases where one of my lady friends has gotten back together with her ex boyfriend after two and a half years. No one can explain how loves occurs but we all know that when it happens to us, we just do not wanna leave.
Below are ways that will guide you on how to get back the girl you loved and still do.
1. Text her
We have all heard of the phrase that says that absence makes the heart grow fonder but at the same time, the absence can also make a heart seek out another man. You may want to text her and tell her that you have seen an advert that she loved and it reminded you of her. Ask her how she is fairing. If she replies with the same vigor as you did, then she might still have feelings for you.
2. Call her
If so far so good, you may want to call her just to say hi. It will show how much effort you are willing to put so as to be in good terms with her once again.
Remember to take it slow. Do not rush into asking her back into your life again. Remember that you broke up and therefore, you need to understand that your love curve has declined and therefore you need to give her time to redeem the spark if any.
3. Ask her out
If the above steps have turned out well, you may want to ask her out to her favorite food joint or to the movies. Keep it casual. See if she accepts your invitation. This will help curb the awkward moment and help keep her at ease.
4. Tell her you miss her in your life
This step obviously comes after you have asked her out and she accepts. Ask her how she has been doing since you broke up and seek to find out what is new in her life. Tell her that you miss her and would want her back in your life; and probably have things the way they were in the past or even better.
5. Accept and apologize
If you did something wrong to her, make a real apology like a real man would. Do not act hysterical and start crying and throwing tantrums over the break up. It only shows how emotionally unstable you are and is a pure turn off. Take it slow and sincere- if she still loves you, she will come back to you.